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The Beauty of a Booty Call: How to Call for Sex Whenever You Need To

Booty calls should be there for everyone. After all, we all get horny sometimes, and there's nothing wrong with a little NSA sex on request, is there?

getting as many booty calls as possible
With a booty call there are no specific fuck buddy arrangements.

But if you are shy about asking for a booty call, it can be an intimidating challenge. Here's how to get it done and arrange casual sex when you need it most.

Let's Get it Straight: Defining a Booty Call

Before we move onto tactics, it's important to be clear about what is, and what isn't a booty call.

So here's a definition to work with: a booty call is an SMS message, email or phone call that requests no strings attached sex with someone you know, and is often part of fuck buddy type arrangements. There. That's pretty clear. So let's move onto working out how to do it right.

Stay in Touch with One Night Stands

The first rule about booty calls is simple: Without a phone book crammed with contacts who might be up for sex, your booty calls are going to lead to some pretty embarrassing situations.

To avoid this, when you have one night stands or short relationships, try to stay in touch. Often, short term partners will be up for booty calls in the future, but may not want to bring it up, so don't be afraid. They won't mind at all.

If it Becomes a Regular Thing, it's Still a Booty Call

Secondly: Don't worry about booty calls becoming too serious. When you enter into booty call relationships, both parties know what's involved. It's a conscious thing. When that happens, it's easy to find yourself meeting the same partner week in, week out. If so, you've probably just found a fuck buddy who fits you like a glove, so make the most of it.

Get to Know Booty Call Partners First

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Make booty calls on the spur!

Take care: Here's a major error that guys make when searching for a booty call. They go straight from chatting to a stranger online to requesting a meet up for sex. That's rarely going to fly.

Instead, it's better to get to know them. Meet them, flirt, let them see you're OK and not some deranged sex maniac. Then go for the booty call message. It works much better that way, believe me.

Look Outside Your Inner Circle

Here speaks the voice of experience. Booty calls with your best friend are poison. Sure, they might be amazing for a while, but your emotional connection and history will always get in the way.

Either they will take offense or want something more. So stay clear of close friends. Look to more distant acquaintances instead.

Signal Your Intent

Here's the killer move: Letting your booty call partner know that you are up for sex, but not long-term dating. Try to engage them in conversation about commitment and bring up your status.

If they are interested in you and seem engaged when you tell them you aren't into commitment, they're pretty much hooked.

Be Prepared for Your Booty Call Like a Pro

Too many people make booty calls on the spur of the moment without thinking about preparation. Big mistake.

  • What happens when your date arrives and you don't have protection, but they demand it?
  • What happens when you haven't tidied your pad, and they are turned off?
  • What about candles, wine, music?

Think of everything to make your booty call go smoothly. It's worth it!!!

Get Your Tone Right When Making a Booty Call

Now let's move onto the actual booty call: After all, it's pretty important, right? Think about your tone of voice when you make the call or send the message. Don't be creepy or too blunt.

Try to take a light tone, and make sure your partner is on the same wavelength. If you've judged them right, they will sense what you are getting at and let you know they are keen.

Never Nag Booty Call Partners

This one is fundamental: If you've made a booty call and the message hasn't got through or you've been turned down, don't press the issue.

NO means NO, but not necessarily for good. Maybe they are just not up for it tonight for some reason. If you push them, your partner may be turned off for good, ruining future rendez vous opportunities.

Don't Assume that a Booty Call is Out of the Question

On a similar note, don't be afraid to make the first move: Millions of people make booty calls every day, and someone has to take the initiative.

Remember, many guys and girls are receptive to NSA sex proposals. They won't make it obvious, but that's what they want. All they need is for you to ask them and if you don't ask, you won't get.

Time Your Text Messages for Maximum Impact

What use is a breakfast booty call SMS? Nothing. If you propose an evening meeting too early, your partner will probably still be shaking off their sleep.

But if you ask too late, they may be tucked up for the night. The right time to send a booty call is early to mid-evening when people are still up for something social (or sexual).

friends making love during a booty call
Booty calls are the best way to have amazing NSA sex

Maintain Contact with Booty Call Partners

After the booty call is just as important as before, at least if you want to repeat the experience. So when you've had great NSA sex, don't let it disappear over the horizon.

Send an SMS or email: It could be a week later or two weeks. It doesn't really matter. Just check in and ask them how they are. Remind them that you are there, ready for NSA fun whenever they want you.

So that's that!

Booty calls are there, they're real and they are amazing. If you need sex, don't be denied. Do the groundwork, put in the call and follow it up like an expert, and NSA sex will be available when desire strikes.

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