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10 Great Tips for Enjoying Incredible Quickies

In an ideal world, real life would always be fitted in around our sex lives, but this isn't an ideal world. Instead, we often have to find a few minutes to get together, and we need to make those minutes count.

Couple having a quickie on the floor
Don't forget the basics - quickies also need to include foreplay

If you find yourself pressed for time but horny as hell, this article will help. Quickies can be just as satisfying as all-night sex marathons, but they have to be done right. Here's how to fit a night's worth of ecstasy into just a few moments.

1. Just Because it's Quick Doesn't Mean There's No Time for Foreplay

All too often, guys rush into quickies trying to climax as quickly as possible. In a way, that's understandable. When you feel like the stopwatch is ticking, you inevitably start to rush things, but when you do, you forget about some crucial sexual basics.

For one thing, quickies need to include foreplay. Quick sex is just like normal sex. So talk, fondle each other - whatever gets you in the mood. You can't just jump right in.

2. Don't Be Ashamed to Try Unusual Locations

When we're talking about quickies, you can't be choosy about where and when you do it. The desire to have casual sex can arise at any moment, and almost anywhere can (theoretically) serve as a place to get down and dirty.

But not if you have hang-ups about being caught, or taking things slowly. Throw yourself into the moment, discard your worries and just do it.

3. Quickies Don't Need to Include Penetration at All

When you mention quickies to people, what do they say? Usually, quickies are associated with penetrative sex, but that's not the whole story.

In fact, oral sex and hand stimulation can be just as erotic and allow you both to reach orgasm far more quickly than intercourse. So don't limit yourself. Use your whole repertoire of sexual techniques.

4. Don't Put to Much Pressure on Yourself

If you have only got 15 minutes to fuck, you're not always going to bring her to orgasm. Hell, you might not even come yourself. The thing about quickies is that they are over in a flash, and they sometimes don't end like you'd expect.

Couple having enjoying a quickie in the kitchen
Throw yourself into the moment, discard your worries and just do it

But don't sweat. It's all still fun, even if both of you don't reach the heights of sexual pleasure. Just enjoy the experience.

5. Carry the Right Equipment

If you and your partner are heading out to the beach or a party, be sure to take the right tools to enjoy a stellar quickie.

Planning ahead is the best way to make the most out of your few minutes away from the crowd, so take some lube (which helps to loosen up the female partner) and think about bringing a toy or two as well. Whatever gets you horny the fastest.

PRO TIP

Use Technology to Arrange Your Quickies. If you are apart from your partner or just starting a relationship, organizing when to have sex is vital.

Smartphones are your friend here. Use kinky sexts to send your invitation and location details, so that you can fit your sexy sessions into both of your schedules.

6. Do Some Work Before You Get Into It

Here's a weird trick that makes quickies extra fun: if you know there's a chance that you'll get together with someone for a few moments, run through it in your head.

Fantasize about what might happen, roleplay some sexy talk and think about where to do it. A bit of preparation can go a long way towards making quickies satisfying sexual encounters.

7. Location, Location, Location

At the risk of sounding like a real estate agent: location matters. When you and your partner get a taste for quickies, talk over possible locations and situations.

Couple having sex on the backseat of a car
Quickies are unpredictable - they can end up in any place

Work out where to have that pre-breakfast fuck, or where to get away from friends when you're out at the park. And if you're with a colleague, work out where to get some precious privacy in the workplace.

PRO TIP

Let the Quickie Unfold. Don't go into your quickies expecting a sensory blitz. Don't expect your partner to know all the right moves. It's a messy, unpredictable thing to do, so embrace that messiness.

Sometimes, quickies can end up in place no-one expects. Sometimes they fizzle out. But pros know that you can't second guess them. Just let the action unfold.

8. Take a Few Risks - It's Worth It

Be honest. One of the reasons you love having quick sex is because of the risk involved. When you could be discovered at any moment, every kiss, every thrust, every sensation becomes more intense.

You feel like a rebel, winning a tiny battle against society, and it makes the sex so much more enjoyable. So strike a balance between risk and security. Find times and places that are exposed, but not too exposed, and you'll reap the rewards.

9. Dress to Impress

When you have quickies, there's rarely enough time to get undressed. Wearing too many clothes wastes precious time when you could be getting down to it.

So if you know that a quickie is on the cards, think about fucking fully-dressed, or consider doing away with underwear in the morning. Some people might find it gross, but it saves time at the crucial moment.

Make Quickies a Key Part of Your Sex Life

There you go. Quickies aren't a mystery, but they aren't for novices. If you want to include short sex sessions in your routine, go right ahead.

As long as you keep an open mind, pick the right locations, use the right techniques and let things take their course, you're in for an amazing experience.

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