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How Do You Know if Your Girl Is Horny?

Knowing when the woman in your life is horny is essential if you want a happy and fulfilling sex life.

Pretty girl smiling and starring at a man
You need to spot the signs that she's in the mood for sex

You may me missing opportunities for sex with your fuck friend, or you could be pressuring your spouse into sex when she’s not really in the mood. If you don’t know the signs, how will you ever know when to make a move?

Fortunately, the science of sex isn’t all that complicated. In many situations, a woman will send subtle signs that she’s in the mood — you just need to be ready to spot them and oblige. Here are some of the tell-tale signs that a woman needs sex. Understand them, and you’ll be able to enjoy more sex than ever before.

Here are seven common signs that a woman is horny.

1. She’s making eye contact with you

Now, it’s important to differentiate normal eye contact and seductive eye contact. The scientific name for this is the “copulatory gaze”, and it means “I need to have sex with you very soon!”.

This form of eye contact lingers and smoulders for an almost uncomfortable amount of time. Her eyes will stare deep into your soul — making you just as horny as she is. Don’t miss this golden opportunity for hot sex by breaking eye contact, however. Maintain your gaze until she averts her eyes… but let her know you’re interested.

Woman making prolonged eye contact with a man
Prepare yourself for a hot night if you recognise the "copulatory gaze"

This copulatory gaze can happen anywhere, at any time. Whether you’re having dinner at a restaurant or sitting on a train, you need to be ready. Horniness can be interrupted and even negated by various circumstances, so you’ll need to act quickly. Whether you rush home for hot sex or head for the nearest public bathroom, this is too good an opportunity to turn down.

2. She’s touching herself

Whether she’s doing it subliminally or on purpose, a woman touching herself in a particular way is often a sign that she needs sex. This can happen in private or public, but you need to be able to add context to the scenario.

For example, if you’re sitting opposite the girl in a public place and she starts to rub the inside of her thigh, there’s a very good chance she’s super horny for you. If this is combined with prolonged eye contact, you’re definitely onto a winner.

Another sign to look for is her touching her hair. If she’s running her hands slowly through it, your luck might be in. Combined with a flick of the head, this is often an invitation for sex. Again, if she’s doing this whilst making eye contact, prepare yourself for sex.

Pro tip: Subtly reciprocate by running a hand through your own hair — while maintaining eye contact.

3. She’s wearing revealing clothes

If a woman leaves the house horny, there’s a good chance she’ll dress in revealing clothes. Whether she does this in purpose to attract male attention or it’s a subconscious act, this could give you an idea of where you stand in terms of making your move.

Horny girl wearing sexy clothes
Revealing clothes could be a sign of her need for sexual attention

There is evidence to suggest that women use their cleavage to attract male attention, as men often associate it with the buttocks of a female. This, combined with a figure-hugging dress and bare legs is often a reflection of her need for sexual attention.

If you’re approaching someone you don’t know, this is NOT your cue to start being sleazy; it is merely an indication that she might be receptive to some compliments. Pay attention to her makeup too, as bright colours are often a subliminal signal for men.

4. She touches you more than usual

Horny girls need lots of contact, and they won’t be shy about it. If you’re chatting up a young lady and she’s stroking your arm or running her hands through your hair, you can be fairly certain that she has sex on her mind.

But you know you’ve really hit the jackpot when she “accidentally” rubs her breasts or ass on you. If she’s giving you signals, she’ll do this more than once to make sure you’ve got the message.

If you’re together, this contact will be much more obvious, and may involve prolonged touching. Touch her in the same place; if she’s up for it, she won’t put up a fight.

5. She’s drinking faster than usual

If a girl is horny, there’s a good chance she’s a little nervous and anxious. She’ll also be keen to let her inhibitions go in order to get the sex she needs — particularly if she’s a single woman looking for something casual.

Is the woman in question drinking faster than other dates you taken out? Is she drinking to keep up with you? Is she taking a sip of her drink every few seconds? Is she drinking progressively faster? If you can answer “yes” to these questions, there’s a good chance this woman is horny.

Pro tip: Never get a girl drunk to have sex with her, and never let her get in such a state she isn’t capable of making rational decisions. Suggest something to eat, or ask her to take a walk for some fresh air.

6. The tone of her voice changes with you

If you’re with friends or colleagues, listen carefully to how the girl in question is talking. Does she change her voice, her vocabulary or her tone when she talks to you? Does her voice go higher, and does she talk to you more slowly than she does to other people?

Man flirting with a beautiful woman in a restaurant
Pay attention to her voice and the way she drinks

The human voice is a powerful seduction tool, and older women in particular know how to use it to their advantage. This is one of the more subtle signs you will be given, so it’s important to pay attention.

The more you get to know a woman, the more you’ll get to know the tell-tale signs that she’s horny and ready for some steamy action. But if the woman in question is a relative stranger, you’ll need to proceed with caution. Take things slowly, and make your move when the time is right.

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