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Do Women Have a Secret Desire for Double Penetration?

Before diving into the secret desires of women, it's important to get a complete picture of what "double penetration" really means. For most, this means having a penis inserted into two orifices (mouth, anus, vagina) at the same time.

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Want both holes stuffed at a time? Oh you naughty babe!

However, some people will use sex toys, such as vibrators or butt plugs, in combination with a man's penis to accomplish double penetration. These are the most common definitions, although individuals may make up their own based on what they like.

Do Women Want Double Penetration?

The answer to this isn't as straight-forward as you may think, and that's because every woman is different! The truth is, some do and some don't. It really depends on personal preference for each person and what stirs their sexual desires.

However, if you're looking for more insight into this question, consider the results of a survey where 330 women answered the question, "do you like being double penetrated?". 167 said yes, 28 said they refuse to try it, 116 said they had never tried it and 31 said they tried it but didn't like it.

Although this survey only asked a small number of women, it's easy to see that there are a lot who like or are curious about this kinky sexual encounter. In fact, the majority of online threads about this subject have large numbers of women who talk about their interest in double penetration in various ways. It's absolutely something women are talking about, and the majority of them crave testing out their desires.

Approaching the Subject

Are you interested in finding out if the women in your life is interested in this? It's important to broach the subject without pushing it on her. One idea is to simply ask her what her sexual fantasies are and see if it comes up naturally in conversation.

And if she asks what yours are in return, you can let her know that double penetrating her is something you're interested in. Again, the key with talking about this fantasy is to not push it. Let her tell you if it's something she's interested in and wants to try.

Fortunately because this is something a lot of women tend to be curious about, you might be delighted by the response that you get. However, if she's not interested in this at the moment, don't count it out forever. You never know what the future will hold, especially since most women's sexual desires/fantasies tend to change over time.

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Why choose one of them? Let them both fuck you - simultaneously!

Is it Her Secret Desire?

So what happens when you talk to your partner and you find out that she has a secret hidden desire for double penetration? Chances are you'll have a smile from ear to ear, and will be ready to try it right away. However, you both might want to come up with a plan for what to do and when to do it. This is important because you both might have a different idea for what you want.

For example, she might want to have double penetration done by adding in another partner, while you want to do it with a sex toy. See where the conflict can arise? This is why, even though it can be exciting to learn that you both want to explore DP (double penetration), it's important to talk about it. If you make a plan, then chances are the experience will be a lot better for both of you.

Another enticing thing to think about is experimenting with different things so you can both find what you want.

Some of the top ways to experiment double penetration include:

  • Sex Toy: This generally means using a sex toy and penis, with one in either the vagina or anus. To do this, make sure the sex toy is the right size for her to be comfortable with, especially if it will be in the anus. There are a lot out there to choose from, so take your time. You should also make sure you have an adequate amount of lube for anal sex, because it can be painful without it.
  • Two Men: A lot of women are curious about double penetration with two men rather than one man and a sex toy. A lot of lube will be required for this (especially if anal sex is involved), but that's not all. You'll also need to figure out logistics for where each man will be, which can sometimes get confusing. Fortunately if you're all willing to bed and maneuver, it can work out quite well. Penetration will be done in two places simultaneously, choosing from the anus, mouth and vagina.

Trying both of these out is especially beneficial for couples who are new to DP, as they can get more familiar with one another and what they like. You might be surprised by what you learn about your partner, but also yourself!

Experimenting on Your Own

If you're not in a relationship and want to experiment on your own, this subject may be something you'll need to handle differently with future partners. There are many women and men who are very open about this (especially in online forums), and that may take some getting used to.

The most important thing to remember is to be honest and to only do what you are comfortable with. This will ensure you have the best experience, especially when you're experimenting.

Enjoying the Experience

Double penetration is no doubt a hot topic, even if it's one that most women are keeping under wraps. Fortunately the stigma around this hushed subject has been changing in recent years, and women are becoming more open with their thoughts about it.

They are feeling more comfortable exploring this fantasy in particular, and learning what benefits can come from that. If you're going to explore this sexual experience on your own, then just remember this: Enjoy the experience!

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